February 14, 2012

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How You CAN Afford It

 

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If there was one activity in the world I could spend every single day doing and not get tired of it, it’s skiing. I love bombing down long, fast runs. I love the technical descents of more challenging terrain. I love the obstacles of the terrain parks.

It’s the vacation I look forward to the most all year every year.

But this year was different.

This year I couldn’t afford to go skiing. Lift tickets, skis, boots, it all adds up to a lot more than we can cash flow right now.

Facing that reality was a tough one for me. And while I knew in my heart this was ultimately where we wanted to be as a family, the pain of missing a year skiing was crushing.

Yeah, yeah, I know what you’re thinking. “Boo-hoo. My wallet’s too small for my fifties, and my diamond shoes are too tight!”

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February 7, 2012

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3 Questions To Get You Moving

questions when you're stuck

I always strive to be better tomorrow than I was yesterday. Sure it’s a great philosophy, but it’s not always that simple is it?

Sometimes things just don’t move forward.

Sometimes you get stuck.

Even with the best intentions and a lot of motivation you will hit a wall every now and then.

Lately I’ve been struggling with productivity. I’ve got some awesome things planned for Life Stoked, but I’m spending too much energy spinning my wheels.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m putting in a lot of time on this stuff, and I’m having a blast. But I can tell I’m not completely in stride. I could be getting better results without struggling so much.

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January 31, 2012

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Do NOT Say These Magic Words

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Think about a problem in your life right now. Make it something substantial that you genuinely wish were different. Maybe something that grates on you day in and day out.

Fix your problem firmly in your mind so you can feel your emotions begin to rise.

Now I’m going to teach you the magic words…

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January 24, 2012

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The Five Commandments of Fastlane Businesses

The Millionaire Fastlane

You want to know how to get rich? I mean really rich, not like millionaire next door rich. Like house in the mountains, skiing 4 months a year while you’re still making money rich.

Start a business. (but not just any business)

That’s the three word secret that can take you from the tedious road of working and saving for 40+ years, and put you on the fast-track to wealth.

I’m not talking about anything shady here. Not internet scams or hocking questionable goods.

I mean a legit business that makes the world a better place. I mean starting something that serves a deep need in a compelling way.

That is how you really get rich.

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January 13, 2012

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Why I’m Frustrated With Goal Setting

goals vs no goals

It frustrates me to no end that we’re never taught how to set goals right in school. Sure, I can tell you the chemical formula for table salt, but I couldn’t plan my best year ever in a way that breeds success.

Our culture does a great job of impressing upon us the importance of achievement and goal setting. We get an A for that.

But most of our goals are just… flat.

  • I’m going to complete a triathlon
  • I’m going to lose weight
  • I’m going to read my Bible every day

We’re never taught the art of goal setting that helps us craft a life we’re excited to live. We’re never let in on the process to doing this right.

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January 10, 2012

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I Am Dangerous

inspiration to take risks

I have studied many times
The marble which was chiseled for me -
A boat with a furled sail at rest in a harbor.
In truth it pictures not my destination
But my life.
For love was offered me, and I shrank from its
disillusionment;
Sorrow knocked at my door, but I was afraid
Ambition called to me, but I dreaded the chances.
Yet all the while I hungered for meaning in my life
And I know that we must lift the sail
And catch the winds of destiny
Wherever they drive the boat.
To put meaning in one’s life may end in madness,
But life without meaning is the torture
Of restlessness and vague desire -
It is a boat longing for the sea and yet afraid.

[Edgar Lee Masters]

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January 5, 2012

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Why Your Goal Will Fail – And What To Do About It

Start With Why

There’s a lot of joggers out right now, have you noticed? Fast ones, slow ones, big ones, small ones.

Joggers with new running gear. Joggers with strollers. Joggers who looked happy, and joggers I keep an eye on to make sure they don’t pass out in my lawn.

January is a month for beginning new things. Nearly every gym I know is holding some sort of challenge or special. My inbox at work is filled with once quite clients ready to get a jump on the new year. Everyone has something new they’re working on.

Awesome right?

Sure. But it won’t last.

In March the gyms will be back to the “usual crowd.” The trails won’t be packed with joggers anymore.

The excitement of new beginnings will be replaced with the steady beat of “the grind.” Next year… Next year things will be different.

Right?

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December 30, 2011

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How You Can Increase Your Success Next Year In 30 Minutes

How To Do An Annual Review

So you want to CRUSH 2012? I mean really knock the cover off it?

Great! Me too. You’re in the right place.

Most of us spend this time of year crouched at the starting line in anticipation. Our feet are set. Our heads are bowed in focused preparation. We’re ready for the race.

But before you set your feet in the starting blocks and wait anxiously for the gun to blast there’s something I want you to do that’s going to make all the difference in your performance:

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